Pleasure Archetype Quiz - Isabella Frappier

Welcome to The Pleasure Archetype Quiz!

You've heard the terms "pleasure", "self-love", and "self-care" being thrown around, and sure, we all want to be able to access them all the time. But how in touch with your pleasure are you really? Take this quiz to find out! Plus, you'll get a very pleasurable reward at the end...

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How do you feel about your body? Your genitals?

I always love every inch of me!

Most of the time I love my body.

My relationship to my body fluctuates a lot.

It's challenging for me to love my body all the time.

Sadly, I don't feel good about my body most of the time.

What is your current self-narrative about who you are as an erotic creature?

I always feel like a fully embodied multi-orgasmic erotic creature

I can usually access my erotic energy when I want to

I'm still figuring that out

I have no idea

Sadly, I don't really like/know my erotic self

Is it easy for you to prioritize your basic self-care tasks (hydration/movement/nature/healthy food/etc)?

Yes, I effortlessly prioritize my basics self-care tasks EVERY day.

Most days I do a great job at my self-care tasks

It can be a bit of a challenge, but I'm pretty good at it

Ehhh...depends on the day. It's a bit iffy.

I find it really hard to prioritize my self-care tasks

Is it easy for you to prioritize your sensual self-care tasks (beautiful adornments/flirting with self/self-portraits/self-gifts/etc)?

Oh it's SO easy! I effortlessly prioritize my sensual self care EVERY day

It's fairly easy, most days I include at least one sensual self-care task

It's okay, I do my best, but it's more of a weekly than daily affair

It's hard, but I'm trying!

It's really challenging for me to prioritize my sensual self-care

Is it easy for you to prioritize sexual/sensual pleasures in your life? (both solo and partnered)

It's so effortless, every day I prioritize and enjoy sensual pleasures.

It's find it pretty easy to prioritize them, but perhaps not EVERY day.

I prioritize sensual pleasures on a weekly rather than daily basis.

It can be challenging to prioritize them, but I'm trying.

I rarely prioritize them.

Most often, do you give from your own cup to others, or do you fill up your own cup and then give from your overflow?

My cup stays full! I always give from my overflow.

Sometimes my cup dips low, but I refill myself before giving to others.

I'm still trying to find the balance, I swing between.

I would like to give from my overflow, but honestly I usually fill my cup, pour it out to others, then refill myself. It's a cycle.

I didn't even realize I could have overflow!

Do you feel grounded and embodied to safely express your sexuality whenever you desire?

Always.

Usually/most of the time.

Sometimes.

Occasionally, and I'm hoping for more.

Never/rarely.

Do you find it easy to cultivate and ask for experimentation in sex? (both solo and partnered)

Absolutely, all of the time.

Most of the time.

It fluctuates.

Sometimes/occasionally.

Rarely/never.

How many moments of pure pleasure do you usually have each day?

Oh, it's all day every day!

Most of every day is pleasurable.

It fluctuates, but around 10 or more

5-10

5 or less

Do you find it easy to feel deserving of pleasure, even if you mentally know you should?

So easy! Gimme all the pleasure, all the time, I deserve it!

Most of the time, I feel very deserving of pleasure.

I know I deserve pleasure, but it's still hard sometimes to feel I deserve it.

It's easier to feel pleasure through seeing my partner's pleasure.

It's really hard to feel like I deserve it.

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